The most destructive habit, Worry
The greatest Joy, Giving
The greatest loss, Loss of self-respect
The most satisfying work, Helping others
The ugliest personality trait, Selfishness
The most endangered species, Dedicated leaders
Our greatest natural resource, Our youth
The greatest “shot in the arm”, Encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome, Fear
The most effective sleeping pill, Peace of mind
The most crippling failure disease, Excuses
The most powerful force in life, Love
The most dangerous pariah, A gossiper
The world’s most incredible computer, The brain
The worst thing to be without, Hope
The deadliest weapon, The tongue
The two most power-filled words, “I Can”
The greatest asset, Faith
The most worthless emotion, Self-pity
The most prized possession, Integrity
The most powerful channel of communication, Prayer
The most beautiful attire, a SMILE!

Post is taken from here

i realize it now
it’s a foolish things to do
i do realize it now
how this love should be taking care of

for every step i take
makes me know how i feel

how i love you, i realize it now
you’re the living gift i have
sure i love you for being the best thing in my life
seems  I’m trying to forget how i’m being in love
you’re the reason of my life
like a soulmate suppose to be

oh but how could this be
it really haunted me
and maybe we are meant for each other

how i love you, i realize it now
you’re the living gift i have
sure i love you for being the best thing in my life
seems I’m trying to forget how i’m being in love
you’re the reason of my life
you’re the reason of my life
like a soulmate suppose to be
like a soulmate suppose to be

Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows.
How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt.
We’ve heard it all before, that everybody knows just how to make it right.
I wish we gave it one more try.
One more try,
one more try,
one more try,
‘Cause everybody knows, nobody really knows.

I don’t care what people say, they brought it all in anyway.
Baby don’t fill up your head with he-said, she-said.
It seems like you just don’t know. (don’t know)
The radio’s on, you’re tuning me out.
I’m trying to speak, you’re turning me down.
And I know one day you’ll see nobody has it easy.
I still can’t believe you’ve found somebody new.
But I wish you the best, I guess.

Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows.
How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt.
We’ve heard it all before, that everybody knows just how to make it right.
I wish we gave it one more try.
One more try,
one more try,
one more try,
‘Cause everybody knows, nobody really knows.

Oh I wish you would understand.
Just an ordinaryman.
I wish that we have known
That everybody knows, that nobody really knows.

And I know one day you’ll see nobody has it easy.
I still can’t believe you’ve found somebody new.
But I wish you the best, I guess.

Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows.
How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt.
We’ve heard it all before, that everybody knows just how to make it right.
I wish we gave it one more try.
One more try,
one more try,
one more try.
‘Cause everybody knows but nobody really knows.

30-08-2011

I never know what to expect or when I’ll see you next

That’s just how it is

I’ve never been so full of love or been half sure of

how much that I could give…

you’re All that my heart can hold

you’re a part of me body and soul

you fill my every need

when I look at you my eyes see

All that my heart can hold

it’s the greatest love story untold

I won’t explain

Now, you live with someone else

I wonder if she’s felt your heart when it beats for me

Hey, I know there’s so much on your mind

but, still you find time to haunt my memories…

with All that my heart can hold

you’re a part of me body and soul

you fill my every need

when I look at you my eyes see

All that my heart can hold it’s the greatest love story untold

I won’t explain Love is unashamed

I’ll hold you when I can

I never know what to expect or when I’ll see you next

That’s just how it is for us

30/08/2011

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Broken heart is way too underrated.

Jangan pernah meremehkan yang namanya patah hati. Buat anda-anda yang sudah pernah merasakan hal ini pasti mengertilah sesakit apa rasanya. Tidak hanya rasanya yang sakit, patah hati bisa berdampak buruk atau mungkin baik buat beberapa orang. Lebih banyak buruknya, kalau menurut saya.

Coba deh ingat-ingat lagi efek-efek buruk dari patah hati. Kalau buat saya pribadi kira-kira seperti ini:

* Males makan, jadi gak nafsu makan bisa sampai 2 minggu.

* Sleepless night, gak bisa tidur berhari-hari mikir terus. Why..oh…why, endless questions dah pokoknya.

* Sesak nafas kayak NO AIR ,atau rasa sakit didada seperti ….cut like a knives (mbook bahasanya dalemm )

* Gak konsentrasi,gak bisa mikir. Gimana mau mikir yang lain,pikiran udah full tentang dia dan ketegaannya (halah )

* Dehidrasi & mata bengkak, gimana gak dehidrasi nangis terus,pagi,siang,malem,dah kayak gak bakal ada cinta yang lain ajah.

* Kecanduan lagu-lagu mellow, semua lagu mellow yang broken hearted gitu jadi cocok semua dah sama cerita kandasnya percintaan kita.

* Menghancurkan barang-barang yang ada kenangan tentang si dia,dibakar,dirobek,dibuang, tapi kalo yang mahal disimpen kayaknya hahahahaha

Patah hati benar-benar memberikan dampak entah baik atau buruk,yg jelas berdampak dalam kehidupan manusia. Jangan anggap remeh hal ini. Jangan pikir ini urusan yang menye-menye,atau urusan ABG labil . Coba pikir ada berapa banyak lagu yang isinya tentang patah hati? Ada berapa banyak film tentang cinta yang mengisahkan tentang patah hati? Kalau ini memang urusan gak penting gak mungkin laku dah semua lagu sama film yang mellow ituh. Berapa banyak cerita orang yang mencoba atau mungkin bunuh diri gara-gara patah hati? Pasti kita udah sering dengar cerita -cerita seperti itu. Dan pasti kita mikir, kok goblok banget seh segitunya. Tiap orang punya pemikiran dan pengalaman hidup yang berbeda dalam menghadapi masalah. Kalau anda dan saya bisa bertahan dan terus melanjutkan hidup, thank God for that. Tapi ingatlah bagaimana kita melalui masa-masa patah hati. Dan pasti anda ingat betapa sakitnya itu. Karena rasa tidak pernah bohong (iklan banget )

Yah intinya patah hati itu bikin lelah jiwa dan raga.

Gak percaya? coba aja sendiri

Waktu itu saya tidak mengerti kok bisa dampaknya seperti ini. Apa saya yang terlalu lebai sama perasaan saya?

Saya pernah ngobrol dengan seorang teman, gimana dia menghadapi patah hatinya dan melanjutkan hidupnya. Karena buat saya pribadi susah melupakan orang yang pernah ada dalam hidup kita.Tidak semudah membalikkan telapak tangan. Teman saya menjawab pertanyaan saya dengan santai ” Ya sampean yang salah mbak, kalo cinta itu jangan dikasih 100 % hati sampean,maksimal 50% lah. Toh masih banyak cowok-cowok lain mbak”. Nah loh itulah salah saya, terlalu menggunakan hati sampai 100 % buat urusan cinta.

Lah trus apa saya salah kalau saya mencintai dengan sepenuh hati?   Tidak. Inilah jawaban saya.

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way.  (Pablo Neruda,I do not Love you)

Seperti puisi itulah kira-kira perasaan saya. Ya memang begitulah hidup. Ketika kita jatuh cinta kita juga harus siap untuk patah hati. But then again nobody wants to be ready for broken heart, they just want to fall in love

Apa saya menyesal telah mencintai karena sakitnya patah hati?Tidak

At least i’ve been madly in love, i’ve been hurt, i’ve been bleed, i’ve been torn apart and yet i live.

I’ve been living my life, fully ALIVE.

And you never live until you love with all your heart and soul (Boyzone, Everyday i love you).

@esty/25-08-2011

note: ilustrasinya diambil dari sini..

‘Cause all I want is just once
To see you in the light
But you hide behind
The color of the night

I can’t go on running from the past
Love has torn away this mask
And now like clouds like rain I’m drowning and
I blame it all on you
I’m lost – God save me…

I’ll give you everything I am
And everything I want to be
I’ll put it in your hands
If you could open up to me
Can’t we ever get beyond this wall

Cause all I want is just once
Forever and again
I’m waiting for you, I’m standing in the light
But you hide behind
The color of the night

Please come out from the color of the night…

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note:

This song is OST of the movie with the same title. The color of the night (1994) stars Bruce Willis and Jane March.

The painting is Van Gogh’s  “The Starry Night” (1889) the picture is taken from here.

TEARS…..are words that can’t be spoken

One moment in your life……

When you can’t do anything.

When there’s nothing left to say.

All you can do is CRY.……….

@esty/23-08-2011

Ohh, when you’re cold
I’ll be there
Hold you tight to me
When you’re on the outside
Baby, and you can’t get in
I would show you
You’re so much better than you know
When you’re lost, you’re alone
Can’t get back again
I will find you
Darlin’ and I’ll bring you home

And if you want to cry
I am here to dry your eyes (ooh)
And in no time
You’ll be fine

You think I’d leave your side baby?
You know me better than that
Think I’d leave you down
When you’re down on your knees?
I wouldn’t do that
I’ll tell you you’re right when you’re wrong
Ah, ah, ah, ah, oh, oh, oh
And if only you could see into me

Ohh, when you’re cold
I’ll be there
Hold you tight to me (to me, yeah)
Ohh, when you’re alone
I’ll be there
By your side, baby

Ohh, when you’re cold
I’ll be there
Hold you tight to me (to me, yeah)
Ohh, when you’re alone
I’ll be there
By your side, baby