Everybody Knows (John Legend)

It gets harder everyday, but I can’t seem to shake the pain.
I’m trying to find the words to say, please stay.
It’s written all over my face.
I can’t function the same when you’re not here.
Calling your name when no one’s there.
And I hope one day you’ll see nobody has it easy.
I still can’t believe you’ve found somebody new.
But I wish you the best, I guess.

Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows.
How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt.
We’ve heard it all before, that everybody knows just how to make it right.
I wish we gave it one more try.
One more try,
one more try,
one more try,
‘Cause everybody knows, nobody really knows.

I don’t care what people say, they brought it all in anyway.
Baby don’t fill up your head with he-said, she-said.
It seems like you just don’t know. (don’t know)
The radio’s on, you’re tuning me out.
I’m trying to speak, you’re turning me down.
And I know one day you’ll see nobody has it easy.
I still can’t believe you’ve found somebody new.
But I wish you the best, I guess.

Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows.
How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt.
We’ve heard it all before, that everybody knows just how to make it right.
I wish we gave it one more try.
One more try,
one more try,
one more try,
‘Cause everybody knows, nobody really knows.

Oh I wish you would understand.
Just an ordinaryman.
I wish that we have known
That everybody knows, that nobody really knows.

And I know one day you’ll see nobody has it easy.
I still can’t believe you’ve found somebody new.
But I wish you the best, I guess.

Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows.
How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt.
We’ve heard it all before, that everybody knows just how to make it right.
I wish we gave it one more try.
One more try,
one more try,
one more try.
‘Cause everybody knows but nobody really knows.

30-08-2011

All That My Heart Can Hold (Wendy Moten)

I never know what to expect or when I’ll see you next

That’s just how it is

I’ve never been so full of love or been half sure of

how much that I could give…

you’re All that my heart can hold

you’re a part of me body and soul

you fill my every need

when I look at you my eyes see

All that my heart can hold

it’s the greatest love story untold

I won’t explain

Now, you live with someone else

I wonder if she’s felt your heart when it beats for me

Hey, I know there’s so much on your mind

but, still you find time to haunt my memories…

with All that my heart can hold

you’re a part of me body and soul

you fill my every need

when I look at you my eyes see

All that my heart can hold it’s the greatest love story untold

I won’t explain Love is unashamed

I’ll hold you when I can

I never know what to expect or when I’ll see you next

That’s just how it is for us

30/08/2011

Broken Heart…damn it hurts!

Broken heart is way too underrated.

Jangan pernah meremehkan yang namanya patah hati. Buat anda-anda yang sudah pernah merasakan hal ini pasti mengertilah sesakit apa rasanya. Tidak hanya rasanya yang sakit, patah hati bisa berdampak buruk atau mungkin baik buat beberapa orang. Lebih banyak buruknya, kalau menurut saya.

Coba deh ingat-ingat lagi efek-efek buruk dari patah hati. Kalau buat saya pribadi kira-kira seperti ini:

* Males makan, jadi gak nafsu makan bisa sampai 2 minggu.

* Sleepless night, gak bisa tidur berhari-hari mikir terus. Why..oh…why, endless questions dah pokoknya.

* Sesak nafas kayak NO AIR ,atau rasa sakit didada seperti ….cut like a knives (mbook bahasanya dalemm )

* Gak konsentrasi,gak bisa mikir. Gimana mau mikir yang lain,pikiran udah full tentang dia dan ketegaannya (halah )

* Dehidrasi & mata bengkak, gimana gak dehidrasi nangis terus,pagi,siang,malem,dah kayak gak bakal ada cinta yang lain ajah.

* Kecanduan lagu-lagu mellow, semua lagu mellow yang broken hearted gitu jadi cocok semua dah sama cerita kandasnya percintaan kita.

* Menghancurkan barang-barang yang ada kenangan tentang si dia,dibakar,dirobek,dibuang, tapi kalo yang mahal disimpen kayaknya hahahahaha

Patah hati benar-benar memberikan dampak entah baik atau buruk,yg jelas berdampak dalam kehidupan manusia. Jangan anggap remeh hal ini. Jangan pikir ini urusan yang menye-menye,atau urusan ABG labil . Coba pikir ada berapa banyak lagu yang isinya tentang patah hati? Ada berapa banyak film tentang cinta yang mengisahkan tentang patah hati? Kalau ini memang urusan gak penting gak mungkin laku dah semua lagu sama film yang mellow ituh. Berapa banyak cerita orang yang mencoba atau mungkin bunuh diri gara-gara patah hati? Pasti kita udah sering dengar cerita -cerita seperti itu. Dan pasti kita mikir, kok goblok banget seh segitunya. Tiap orang punya pemikiran dan pengalaman hidup yang berbeda dalam menghadapi masalah. Kalau anda dan saya bisa bertahan dan terus melanjutkan hidup, thank God for that. Tapi ingatlah bagaimana kita melalui masa-masa patah hati. Dan pasti anda ingat betapa sakitnya itu. Karena rasa tidak pernah bohong (iklan banget )

Yah intinya patah hati itu bikin lelah jiwa dan raga.

Gak percaya? coba aja sendiri

Waktu itu saya tidak mengerti kok bisa dampaknya seperti ini. Apa saya yang terlalu lebai sama perasaan saya?

Saya pernah ngobrol dengan seorang teman, gimana dia menghadapi patah hatinya dan melanjutkan hidupnya. Karena buat saya pribadi susah melupakan orang yang pernah ada dalam hidup kita.Tidak semudah membalikkan telapak tangan. Teman saya menjawab pertanyaan saya dengan santai ” Ya sampean yang salah mbak, kalo cinta itu jangan dikasih 100 % hati sampean,maksimal 50% lah. Toh masih banyak cowok-cowok lain mbak”. Nah loh itulah salah saya, terlalu menggunakan hati sampai 100 % buat urusan cinta.

Lah trus apa saya salah kalau saya mencintai dengan sepenuh hati?   Tidak. Inilah jawaban saya.

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way.  (Pablo Neruda,I do not Love you)

Seperti puisi itulah kira-kira perasaan saya. Ya memang begitulah hidup. Ketika kita jatuh cinta kita juga harus siap untuk patah hati. But then again nobody wants to be ready for broken heart, they just want to fall in love

Apa saya menyesal telah mencintai karena sakitnya patah hati?Tidak

At least i’ve been madly in love, i’ve been hurt, i’ve been bleed, i’ve been torn apart and yet i live.

I’ve been living my life, fully ALIVE.

 

And you never live until you love with all your heart and soul (Boyzone, Everyday i love you).

@esty/25-08-2011

note: ilustrasinya diambil dari sini..

The Color Of The Night (Lauren Christy)

You and I moving in the dark
Bodies close but souls apart
Shadowed smiles and secrets unrevealed
I need to know the way you feel
I’ll give you everything I am
And everything I want to be
I’ll put it in your hands
If you could open up to me
Can’t we ever get beyond this wall

‘Cause all I want is just once
To see you in the light
But you hide behind
The color of the night

I can’t go on running from the past
Love has torn away this mask
And now like clouds like rain I’m drowning and
I blame it all on you
I’m lost – God save me…

I’ll give you everything I am
And everything I want to be
I’ll put it in your hands
If you could open up to me
Can’t we ever get beyond this wall

Cause all I want is just once
Forever and again
I’m waiting for you, I’m standing in the light
But you hide behind
The color of the night

Please come out from the color of the night…

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note:

This song is OST of the movie with the same title. The color of the night (1994) stars Bruce Willis and Jane March.

The painting is Van Gogh’s  “The Starry Night” (1889) the picture is taken from here.

C.R.Y.

TEARS…..are words that can’t be spoken

One moment in your life……

When you can’t do anything.

When there’s nothing left to say.

All you can do is CRY.……….

@esty/23-08-2011

Sade – By Your Side

You think I’d leave your side baby?
You know me better than that
Think I’d leave you down
When you’re down on your knees?
I wouldn’t do that
I’ll tell you you’re right when you’re wrong
Ah, ah, ah, oh, oh, oh, oh
And if only you could see into me

Ohh, when you’re cold
I’ll be there
Hold you tight to me
When you’re on the outside
Baby, and you can’t get in
I would show you
You’re so much better than you know
When you’re lost, you’re alone
Can’t get back again
I will find you
Darlin’ and I’ll bring you home

And if you want to cry
I am here to dry your eyes (ooh)
And in no time
You’ll be fine

You think I’d leave your side baby?
You know me better than that
Think I’d leave you down
When you’re down on your knees?
I wouldn’t do that
I’ll tell you you’re right when you’re wrong
Ah, ah, ah, ah, oh, oh, oh
And if only you could see into me

Ohh, when you’re cold
I’ll be there
Hold you tight to me (to me, yeah)
Ohh, when you’re alone
I’ll be there
By your side, baby

Ohh, when you’re cold
I’ll be there
Hold you tight to me (to me, yeah)
Ohh, when you’re alone
I’ll be there
By your side, baby

Damn i heart thing song so much!! Simple words but the right one,simple tune but straight to my heart.

Nice song for wedding dance i think so,but it’s great song anyway,love itt !

Saint-Exupéry

A single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us. To live is to be slowly born.
Each man must look to himself to teach him the meaning of life. It is not something discovered: it is something molded.

A chief is a man who assumes responsibility. He says “I was beaten,” he does not say “My men were beaten”.
If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up people to collect wood and don’t assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea.

A civilization is built on what is required of men, not on that which is provided for them.

Loving is not just looking at each other, it’s looking in the same direction.

‘Men have forgotten this truth,’ said the fox. ‘But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed.’
And now here is my secret, a very simple secret; it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye.

A designer knows he has achieved perfection not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.
A rock pile ceases to be a rock pile the moment a single man contemplates it, bearing within him the image of a cathedral.

Night, the beloved. Night, when words fade and things come alive. When the destructive analysis of day is done, and all that is truly important becomes whole and sound again. When man reassembles his fragmentary self and grows with the calm of a tree.

Once men are caught up in an event, they cease to be afraid. Only the unknown frightens men.

The notion of looking on at life has always been hateful to me. What am I if I am not a participant? In order to be, I must participate.

For true love is inexhaustible; the more you give, the more you have. And if you go to draw at the true fountainhead, the more water you draw, the more abundant is its flow.

Grown-ups never understand anything for themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them.

I know but one freedom, and that is the freedom of the mind.

The time for action is now. It’s never too late to do something.

Antoine de Saint-Exupéry(29 June 1900 – 31 July 1944) was a French writer and aviator. He is best remembered for his novella The Little Prince (Le Petit Prince) and for his books about aviation adventures, including Night Flight and Wind, Sand and Stars.

(This original posting is taken from Paulo Coelho Blog)

Muhammad Yunus

Global Social Summit, November 5, 2010

I’m encouraging young people to become social business entrepreneurs and contribute to the world, rather than just making money. Making money is no fun. Contributing to and changing the world is a lot more fun.

Poor people are a like bonsai tree, a little tree. You pick the seed of the tallest tree in the forest and take the best seed out of it, and plant it in a flower pot. You get a tiny little tree, we call it a bonsai. Nothing wrong with the seed, you’ve got the best seed possible. Nothing wrong with the tree, because you actually picked the tallest tree in the forest. But actually it grows this far… why? Because we put them in the flower pot. The base. Society is the base. And society is so stingy it doesn’t give the poor ppl the space to grow.
So i say, change the base! If you change the base, anybody will be as tall as anybody else! My belief is poverty is not caused by poor ppl. Poverty is caused by the system. Poverty is caused by the policies that we pursue.

People can change their own lives, provided they have the right kind of institutional support. They’re not asking for charity, charity is no solution to poverty.

We have created a society that does not allow opportunities for people to take care of themselves because we have denied them those opportunities.

I was teaching in one of the universities while the country was suffering from a severe famine. People were dying of hunger, and I felt very helpless. As an economist, I had no tool in my tool box to fix that kind of situation.
I went to the bank and proposed that they lend money to the poor people. The bankers almost fell over.
They explained to me that the bank cannot lend money to poor people because these people are not creditworthy.

Poverty is unnecessary.

Muhammad Yunus (1940 – ) created the microcredit, and received the Nobel Peace Prize in 2006

(This original posting taken from Paulo Coelho Blog)

Baby It’s Nice….

Baby it’s nice

It’s nice to kiss you in the morning
It’s nice to sleep in your embrace
It’s nice to share everything with you
It’s nice to lean on your shoulder

Baby it’s nice when you hold my hand
It’s nice when you stare my eyes
It’s nice when you kiss my lips gently
It’s nice when you whisper ” i love you”

It’s nice to have someone who love you no matter what.
It’s nice to have someone who think you’re the most of everything
It’s nice to have someone who love me like you do
It’s nice to have someone like you

Baby it’s nice to love you….

@esty/14-08-2011

For The Rest Of My Life

FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE

(Maher Zain)

I praise Allah for sending me you my love
You found me home and sail with me
And I`m here with you
Now let me let you know
You`ve opened my heart
I was always thinking that love was wrong
But everything was changed when you came along

And theres a couple words I want to say

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you. loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart
I feel so blessed when I think of you
And I ask Allah to bless all we do
You`re my wife and my friend and my strength
And I pray we`re together eternally
Now I find myself so strong
Everything changed when you came along

And theres a couple word I want to say

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you. loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart now that you`re here
Infront of me I strongly feel love
And I have no doubt
And I`m singing loud that I`ll love you eternally

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you.loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart

PS: For the rest of my life baby